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There have been a couple of times in my life where I’ve heard something so powerful I instinctively knew it was going to be a Game Changer. When I use that phrase, I generally mean “Holy crap, this going to change everything for me.”

The first time I heard a break-down of the Graves Model, I had one of those moments.

I was at an Eben Pagan/Wyatt Woodsmall conference on leadership (in 2009) when Eben just casually started talking about this model for seeing progress. It was peppered in among the rest of the content and the room lit up so much that he realized there was enough interest for an entire event around the topic, which they immediately began planning. I clearly wasn’t the only person impacted by it.

Since that time I’ve been a covert evangelist for the Graves Model. It’s possibly one of the most powerful tools I have in my arsenal, and I can totally envision how a global understanding of this model could literally save lives, as well as increase the quality of those lives.

First, let me explain how it fits in with the rest of typology.

There are two types of models: horizontal and vertical.

graves-model-x-y-axis_personalityhackerHorizontal models assume that people are at roughly the same level of development, and so study how we’re the same and/or different in our wiring all other things being equal.

Vertical models specifically look at how people are at varying levels of development, and study the progress we make as individuals and as societies.

Myers-Briggs is a horizontal model. It compares/contrasts how people think, make decisions and behave, but it doesn’t really take into account their perspectives of reality. If you’re a 15 year old ISTP or a 45 year old ISTP, the profile will read the same.

Enneagram is a hybrid of the two. A 15 year old Enneagram 1 will have the same profile as a 45 year old Enneagram 1, but their specific level of development within the type may vary greatly. The Enneagram is primarily about awareness and transcending the fixations of your type, and age will sometimes be a help in this (but not always!).

The Graves Model, however, is fully vertical. Its primary interest is in your worldview and just how expanded your awareness about life in general has become.

Most people change quite a bit between the ages of 15 to 45 as their experiences allow them to take in more ‘territory’. So, the profile for an ISTP Ennneagram 1 may read the same for a 15 year old as a 45 year old, but their Graves Model profile will look very different.

The fascinating thing about the Graves Model is that it has implications for both individuals and for societies, as a whole.

Individual people mirror societies, and societies mirror individuals. You can think of them as the “micro” and the “macro” for how people behave.

Since individual people are more nimble than whole societies (think: the difference between a tugboat and a barge), individual people have the capacity to outpace the culture or society they live in with their growth. They then become an example of where the society, itself, is headed.

To say it in an easier way, if you can chart the path that people at the highest levels are at, you can predict where people as a whole are headed.

That’s pretty huge. Anytime you know where things are headed, the ability to plan and guide the journey exponentially increases.

The other cool thing about the Graves Model is its diagnostic abilities.

Let’s pretend you have two generations of people – say, a father and a son – who cannot see eye-to-eye. Everyone says they’re carbon copies of each other and they think identically – in fact, they’re “too much alike,” the assumed cause of misunderstandings.
Father and son shouting

However, seen through the lens of the Graves Model if they are at two different developmental levels, when one points something out, the other one will not be able to see it. It’s simply not in their visual range. If one is exploring territory that the other doesn’t even know exists, their ability to see ‘eye-to-eye’ becomes impossible: for the one, the territory is obvious, and for the other it’s inaccessible.

It’s not that they’re necessarily disagreeing, it’s that they’re not having the same conversation and they don’t even know that.

Now, we don’t know what we don’t know, and when someone is trying to point something out that is beyond our current level of understanding, it’s the rare bird that will calmly and reflectively think, “I guess I just need to do a little more development to see their perspective.” Most people when they can’t see what you’re pointing out will say, “You’re an idiot” (if not out loud, at least to themselves) because you may as well be talking about purple elephants wearing feather boas.

When you take that same analogy and apply it to whole societies and cultures, you can see why we as humans are so convinced of our empirical rightness and, sometimes, hell bent on destroying each other. You’re WRONG (because I can’t see what you’re seeing), and I’m RIGHT (because what I’m seeing should be as obvious to you as it is to me).

To parse all of that down, the Graves Model:

1) Gives us a road map for where we’re heading, as both individual people and as whole societies.
2) Helps us understand why people clash, even if they’re similar in all other ways.

It does other stuff, too, but we’ll get to that in a later article. First, the model.

The Graves Model, aka “Spiral Dynamics”

Be sure to listen to the Personality Hacker podcast on the Graves Model for more information.

Spiral Dynamics is arranged hierarchically from 1 – 8. (There are more levels after 8, we’re just not there yet as a species.) It starts from the bottom and goes up.

Here’s a brief description of each level, including their micro (individual) and macro (societal) manifestations:

  1. Beige – Survival Level. Everything is about the individual and their personal survival. Examples – birth to 4 years old, people who are homeless and have little sensitivity to other people, feral children.
  2. Purple Tribal Level. The focus is now on the ‘tribe’ instead of just the individual. On a “micro” level, this is where a toddler starts to see themselves as part of a family/group. On a “macro” level, this is when tribes start to form. Identity becomes about ones place in the tribe, and it’s vital not to be kicked out. Survival depends upon it. Spiritual development can be observed (how gods impact us as humans, magical thinking).
  3. Red – Warlord Level. When one or two people stand out from the rest of the level 2 tribe, they begin to get a lot of attention and are regarded as leaders. They then move up to level 3, which goes back to a more ‘me-centric’ focus. On a “micro” level, this is when a teenager enters their rebellious years. While it may seem a cavalier or aggressive time period in life, it’s where individuals learn how to stand-up for themselves and their needs.
  4. Blue – Civilization Level. When 3’s start to run into each other and realize there are others not so easily dominated, they begin to create territory lines to indicate domain. Law and rule are created, and warlords become more ‘civilized’. On a “micro” level, this is when we learn to identify with an institution or paradigm “bigger than us.” We’re less ‘me-centric’ and go back to being ‘we-centric’. On a “macro” level, civilizations create armies and better ways to enforce law.
  5. Orange – Achievement Level. Similar to ‘stand out’ 2’s becoming 3’s, ‘stand out’ 4’s become 5. 5 leaders see resources as limitless, something they can manipulate and master. On a “macro” level, this is the birth of capitalism. On a “micro” level, the individual goes back to a ‘me-centric’ focus. They discover there’s no reason to limit themselves. Many people keep themselves from going to this level fearing it will make them ‘money-hungry’ or unethical. Science and technology become very important.
  6. Green – Ecological Level. Just like when 3’s bump into each other they start forming 4, when 5’s form groups they often graduate to 6.These are individuals who have met their goals.They have a more ecological perspective and start to think in terms that are ‘we-centric’ again: community and how they can give back to the world. They’re more concerned about the impact on a holistic manner. They learn how to give back. The idea of tolerance is introduced. Individuals in this level find it very challenging to accomplish their mission because they’re busy listening to everyone’s perspectives.
  7. Yellow – Flex-Flow Level – Stand out 6’s often graduate to 7. Don Beck calls this level “Flex-Flow”, and indicates there’s a graduated level of systemic thinking, but with nodes encompassing much longer timelines. Though it goes back to an ego-centric focus, ego includes all of humanity. Goals are made and calibrated toward that are unlikely to be experienced in the 7’s lifetime. Having already traversed the First Tier, they are able to communicate with individuals in different levels in order to get what they want in a faster and more productive way.

There is speculation on what level 8 looks like, and some individuals that claim to be level 8. I’d reference the related work of Spiral Dynamics to get a better view of 8. I, personally, have only met a very few number of 7’s, and no 8’s. Of course, I’m not an 8, myself, so I may completely have missed one if they came into my orbit. Since I have no personal experience with 8’s, I just use a lot of question marks when referring to them.

This is how the model visually looks:

ISFP

Implications of Spiral Dynamics

Conceptually, there are limitless levels, but as a species we’ve only really gotten to about 7. That is, there are a couple of people here or there that have reached 7, so we ‘kind of’ know what it could possibly look like.

At this time period in history, though, the average level for the human species is 4.

Within highly developed countries there are some highly developed groups that are 6, and they tend to be leaders in most industries. They are also the minority, though their numbers are growing fast in the United States, Europe, Australia, etc. Even in these countries, 6 is not the norm. They’re just becoming the new standard.

To give you more context, in the United States it seems that levels 4/5 make up roughly 70-80% of the population. Level 6 comes out around 10% (and growing fast), and everyone else is either level 3 or lower. Level 3’s are usually teenagers, and if they’re older than teenagers they’re often gang members, or that construction worker friend of a friend who seems like a douchebag.

I’m not saying that construction workers are all Graves 3 and douchebags. However, 3’s often work in manual labor careers and – as they are in the ‘warlord’ level – to other levels often appear to be douchebags. There are some adult level 2’s (as most in this country are children) peppered around trailer courts, Section 8 housing and in mountain communities here and there, and there is a minute number of level 1’s (the level generally represented by infants) that are serially homeless.

If that sounds really condescending, I want to clarity that it’s not because lower levels are intrinsically ‘less than’ or worse.

In Spiral Dynamics the numbers have been replaced with colors for just this reason: to remove the prejudice we have about ‘higher and lower’ equating with ‘better and worse’.

We generally can’t choose our current level, there are just too many influences: culture, time period in history, family background, personal experiences, etc. The only time we have a “quasi-conscious” choice is when we’re on the cusp of going to the next level and we start to resist it. Otherwise, unless we have the luxury of actively choosing a personal development path, our Graves level is somewhat arbitrary.

For example, tribes in Papua New Guinea are generally at Graves 2 or 3 (Beige/Red in Spiral Dynamics), whereas most people in developed countries are 4 or 5 (Blue/Orange). This has nothing to do with personal intelligence, capabilities or otherwise. It has to do with opportunity and how the cultures have evolved over time.
graves-model_PersonalityHacker.com_guns-germs-steelThere’s a spectacular book called “Guns, Germs and Steel” by Jared Diamond which discusses the reasons some cultures explode into technological growth, while others feel like anachronisms from thousands of years ago. Geography, land resources and the ability to cross-pollinate ideas with other cultures are major influencers, whereas superiority of race or culture aren’t.

So, are Graves levels 4/5 superior to 2/3? In terms of generating opportunities, absolutely. But the people who occupy those levels as individuals are not superior or ‘better’.

What do Graves 6’s look like in comparison? Though a small percentage of the general population, they are powerfully influential. They’re at the forefront of eating higher quality foods for both personal health and to increase the quality of the the lives of animals. They are the forefront of alternative energy sources, recycling projects and holistic or alternative medicine. They’re what we call the “creative class,” and are counterculture in a way that sees a bigger picture. They think in ecology, so systems are very important to them.

Since they’ve already been through Graves 5, they know how to accomplish, achieve and gain resource. Graves 6 is where most of the population is headed, should they choose to keep developing in their lifetime.

Knowing your Graves level is one of the highest leverage pieces of information you can have. It not only helps you understand where you’re currently at in your worldview, but it gives you a sneak peak into where you’re headed. It also helps us understand that not everyone is seeing the same terrain we are, and is yet another tool for reconciling differences between people.

Where do you think you’re at on the Graves Model?

-Antonia

podcasts on Spiral Dynamics for more info. – Antonia>

p.s. To really understand this model and its implications in your life, check out the program Your Personality: The Owner’s Manual where we dig deep into this model and how it relates to your personal path.

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54 comments

  • Rowena
    • Rowena
    • August 26, 2018 at 10:38 pm

    I apologise for writing so much about myself, but I needed to clarify:
    I am not in favour of the unpleasant aspects of global 5, such as burning fossil fuels or exploiting people at all costs. If I am in 5, it is purely personal – I’m currently experiencing a great desire to cut myself off from all distractions to focus on what I can achieve.

    I am aware that this is selfish, and that terrible things are happening in the world. I used to feel very guilty about all this due to my upbringing. These days I seem to be emotionally detached from it much of the time even though I consider cruelty illogical. I don’t want to see anybody hurt, but I don’t want to engage with anybody either.

    I admit that if I am in 5, its single-mindedness can bring out a lot of unpleasantness in people, including myself. I accept this failing, but refuse to be emotionally swayed by it.

    I think there may be a trend these days for struggling between individuality and community. I feel a tug between ‘duty’ (to uphold equality, diversity, and the environment) and ambition (unhampered personal success). Is that a common concern these days?

    I aspire to Level 7 due to its balance and inclusiveness whilst still retaining individuality, but I know I’m definitely not there, and may never be.
    When I watch ‘Star Trek’ (especially TNG, or Voyager) I wonder which level is being represented. They have this wonderful unspoken egalitarianism and positive kind of meritocracy.

  • Rowena
    • Rowena
    • August 26, 2018 at 4:45 am

    This is a fascinating concept. At the moment I feel like I’m somewhere in 5 but surrounded by a 4 mentality and with parents who are probably 6s. I have a lot of ambition and drive to succeed as an individual (I’m a currently struggling professional singer in the UK. Also an INTP, if that’s relevant) but circumstances are holding me back and I don’t want to conform any more. I also feel a little resentful of my parents and their 6-like views. I do, in fact, agree with them on environmental issues, the NHS etc. I consider myself a liberal and an egalitarian. However, all I want to focus on now is my career and my individual freedom and I have no desire to be part of a touchy-feely community or concern myself too much with outside problems. My parents have always made me aware of the injustices of the world and how they felt was the best way to live (treating everyone fairly, being vegetarian, no car, always recycling). I’d sort of considered that imposed lifestyle may have been part of my passage through 4, as I didn’t question it in any great depth until I was in my early 20s, and felt guilty if I ever deviated from it. I still agree with this lifestyle in theory, but right now it seems as if there are more important things I could be doing just for myself. It seems like having these 6-like concerns is for the rich/contented/those who have already made their mark on the world. I don’t have the energy right now. Maybe I’ll come back to them when I’m older.

    I’ve been held back due to illness and now need opportunities to achieve my goals, which I refuse to abandon. I’ve never really cared much about finding a partner, and I don’t want children, so I am otherwise unhampered. My drive and goal is to be a full-time professional opera singer. Despite earlier problems, it is theoretically in my reach with the right opportunities. I don’t care about being vastly rich, but if wealth ever comes my way I shan’t be disappointed. I consider that, because of my chosen profession, (and because I currently also work in an academic library) my surroundings are less obviously corporate/capitalist/5 than one might expect. Of course, they are these things, but not in quite the same way as say, an office in a firm would be, so I feel quite detached from traditional 5, I think. I feel alone in my possible 5-ness for much of the time. My colleagues and other associates seem mostly to be contented 4s, and a few 6s – assuming I have understood this concept correctly. This could be due to age as most of them are older, or else they settled into their careers at a younger age than I as they had no obstacles to overcome.

    I have in the past attempted to be conventional and conventionally dutiful outside the home, too, joining various groups (which I eventually abandoned), and moulding my behaviour. I was intrigued with the idea (was it said by you, Antonia, in the podcast?) that 4, though traditionally conservative, can also be manifested in the idea of the Social Justice Warrior. I used to be involved with such people until I realised their narrow-minded dogmatism can make them just as bad in some ways as their opposites on the Right. It’s as if the SJWs have taken good 6 ideals of equality but processed them in a 4 mentality, subverting and making them less inclusive, as they lay down rules about who is/isn’t allowed an opinion, and rejecting those who don’t conform.

    Though I do have some strong beliefs, I also see a lot of shades of grey or different possibilities. I am curious, always trying to see both sides of an issue before making a decision, and try to be as objective as possible, putting emotional biases aside. However, I am also sceptical. I like to gather as much information as possible, and I’m happy to have my mind changed if evidence suggests a different outcome. I’m not claiming to be perfect at this, but it’s always my preferred method of analysis. I’ve never been happy with ignorantly following, but I’d like to think I don’t assert myself aggressively or whilst being swayed by the more wayward emotions of my youth.

    (Well, I’m assuming the above is level 5, and I’m not still a stroppy thirty-four-year-old teenage 3!)
    Have I understood the model correctly?

  • shinobi
    • shinobi
    • July 22, 2018 at 2:16 pm

    I find Ken Wilber’s books as the most excellent, on this topic..

  • shinobi
    • shinobi
    • July 22, 2018 at 2:06 pm

    Modern Grave’s Tests, test from 2-8. I always reach 8-7´. I would say, that at 8, looking at myself, there is a higher sense for intuition. You live life more from your heart. You know, that every problem contains its solution and vice versa. It’s nothing special. More like a holistic consciousness. You are aware of the illusionary nature of time and space, so you start to think and act more globally. There will be more 8’s with the younger generation. You may suffer from time to time, and have depressions, but then sometimes you will experience “ZEN”, also called the experience of “One-ness”. So as an 8, you can temporarily break through to level 9= CORAL, for a period of time. Sometimes just minutes, other times for hours. From the Spiral Dynamics perspective, by Ken Wilber, we already know that we can also break through to Levels as high as 9-12 . I experienced Level 12(clear light) once, it is the experience of purest, transparent light. In this state, you are still connected to your material body, but at the same time freed from it, it is a transcendental experience of eternity. It is the awareness of deep enlightenment. Grave’s model is a little bit outdated, because it doesn’t even include level 9=CORAL. The thing is, we just can’t descripe 9-12 with our normal vocabulary..you have to experience it for yourself, there are simply no words to describe a unique feeling of eternity.

  • Kate
    • Kate
    • July 19, 2018 at 4:54 pm

    How did I miss this comment from Romulus. Glad it is still here. Revisiting this page. I would say this is a great way to put things about level 7 and 8.

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