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In this episode Joel and Antonia talk with Jenn Granneman of IntrovertDear.com about introvert problems and some of the unique struggles they face.

In this podcast you’ll find:

  • We live in the most over-communicated time period in history.
  • There are challenges introverts face.
  • Introverts are unready for conversations because they need to gather their thoughts first.
  • Introverts need to get alone time and recharge after socializing for too long.
  • Introvert, Dear – is a community and blog for introverts and highly sensitive people.
  • What’s the science behind why introverts feel challenges? What are the challenges introverts are experiencing and what’s the science behind those challenges?
  • Word retrieval. Happens when you’re looking for just the right word to communicate your thoughts. Introverts tend to use long-term memory and (using a longer pathway to their brain than extroverts do). Extroverts rely more on working memory (short-term memory).
  • Give yourself permission to collect your thoughts, relax and try to make yourself feel as comfortable as you can (even let you mind wander in the moment).
  • In general, Introverts don’t feel understood by the people around them. There’s a real need for introverts to be understood.
  • A lot of Introverts carry an emotional baggage.
  • Alone time for introverts – how helpful and necessary is alone time for introverts? Alone time gives introverts the energy to face the outside again.
  • Getting enough extraverted time – Have a good balance of alone time and extraverted time, making sure that you don’t shut yourself away from the outside world.
  • Take ownership of your needs. Set proper expectations with the people who you know.
  • It may be challenging especially if there are a lot of people who rely on your presence but remember that before you can help other, you need to help yourself first and attend to your needs.
  • All introverts need something slightly different. The more resistance you get from the outside world, the more you need to fight for your right to do that.
  • Checkout out Introvert, Dear’s Facebook group and website.

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32 comments

  • Charis Branson
    • Charis Branson
    • September 22, 2015 at 5:00 pm

    Thanks for sharing that TED talk! I just listened to it and it was beautiful. I can’t count how many times I was approached by the hosting parent of a slumber party and told if I didn’t want to join with the rest of the girls they would call my parents to come pick me up. Playing with the animals outside was always preferred to indoor group games. ;)

  • Charis Branson
    • Charis Branson
    • September 22, 2015 at 4:57 pm

    Thanks Esther! We value such feedback. :)

  • Charis Branson
    • Charis Branson
    • September 22, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    Lol, Anthony! So, you must be the bearded weirdo talking to himself. I want to go on a hike with you! :)

  • Charis Branson
    • Charis Branson
    • September 22, 2015 at 4:54 pm

    Thanks Lance! That’s a good strategy. I was actually the person in the podcast who got upset when my peace and tranquility was disturbed by “Griswolds.” Antonia helped me realize this isn’t necessarily Extraverts, but most likely people who are just really myopic.

    For instance, I was in a book store the other day. We had the whole place to ourselves (me and my INTJ hubby), until a couple teens came in. They were loudly discussing every book they encountered. It was so maddening! They may or may not have been Extraverts, but they were definitely myopic. Instead of hefting Encyclopedias at them, I reminded myself that they have just as much right to be there as I do. Did it help? Marginally. ;)

  • Charis Branson
    • Charis Branson
    • September 22, 2015 at 4:49 pm

    Thanks for your comment, Virgilio! Be kind to yourself and don’t ever let anyone make you feel there is something wrong with you. I will sometimes get irritated if people keep plowing over me in conversation. Eventually, I will say, “If you really want to hear what I have to say, you have to pause long enough for me to get a word in!” Once I open up that dialogue, I just keep reminding them to let me participate in my way.

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