Podcast – Episode 0381 – How To Be A Good Winner
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In this episode, Joel and Antonia talk about what to do when your ideas and worldview actually win.
In this podcast you’ll find:
- Is winning gracefully a skill many people lack?
- When winning poorly goes beyond just gloating.
- Why couldn’t Joel handle it when someone conceded in an argument?
- The thing we might relish in a bit too much.
- What we often think winning means.
- What about losing?
- When being a poor loser sets in.
- The 2 best things about losing.
- Why losing gracefully builds you up.
- How our modern world simulates high stakes.
- What is happening to our ego when we lose.
- Our challenges of being a poor winner or loser.
- What winning or losing poorly is stripping us of.
- The beauty of the DIKW model. (Check out our podcast on the model: Podcast – Ep 165 – Fake News, Alternate Facts, And DIKW)
- Why people aren’t even expecting to win anymore…and the thing they’re doing instead.
- When politics turned away from solving issues.
- Where we are now in the Graves model. (See more on this model here: Personality Hacker Podcast – Ep 0022 – Graves Model)
- When seeking dominance dictates our winning behaviors.
- Are we now any different than our human history?
- Why we need to find better ways to win.
- This dangerous thing people are expecting of others.
- How do we change how humans handle winning?
- What competition means to the human experience.
- The huge things we are missing out on.
- How this study on rats explains so much.
- What are we doing with our ideological battles?
- When we think we are winning, but aren’t really.
- Joel’s struggles to have his ideology “win”.
- The role tension plays in battles.
- How the intrinsic lessons of life affect how we win.
- What is the thing that makes every human in existence already a winner?
- The other thing that means we each end up losing.
- Why having enough wins in life is so vital.
- When there are different kinds of wins.
- 2 experiences that affect how we are as winners.
- Ways morals and identity get intertwined with winning.
- When Cognitive Distortion Quadrant Thinking sets in.
- Why what Robin Williams said about competition is so right.
- What we are overidentifying with.
- Taking how we win to the next level.
- What we can wish for our opponents.
- Why doing these 3 things when you win makes all the difference.
- The hostile choice we can stop making.
- Why the interplay between winning and losing is so crucial…and how we actually grow through it.
- The self-assessment that helps you grow.
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