Podcast – Episode 0371 – Overcoming The Fantasy Of Perfectionism
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In this episode, Joel and Antonia talk about overcoming the fantasy of perfectionism.
In this podcast you’ll find:
- What is perfectionism and how does it differ from or relate to idealism?
- Two resources Antonia reviewed on perfectionism:
- Two definitions of perfectionism
- A basic definition
- A modern definition
- Joel – an example of adaptive perfectionism
- There can be good perfectionism – what are some of the signs of this?
- Perfectionism to pass societies standards – how maladaptive perfectionism plays into this and relates back to the self.
- The 1st sign of perfectionism – “all or nothing” thinking
- Markers of maladaptive perfectionism and ideas for overcoming it.
- The 2nd sign of perfectionism – being highly critical
- When is this justified or not?
- The concept of conditional acceptance – and how this affects competence
- The 3rd sign of perfectionism – being pushed by fear
- Unhealthy versus unhealthy motivation
- The 4th sign of perfectionism – unrealistic standards
- Some thoughts on personality type and their relationship with internal metrics
- The 5th sign of perfectionism – focusing on results
- How do you know if it’s healthy or unhealthy?
- The 6th sign of perfectionism – fear of failure
- Some thoughts on using feedback to build self-esteem
- When adaptive and maladaptive perfectionism look similar – how can you tell the difference? Some questions to ask yourself.
- Perfectionism with an outer world focus
- Joel – 3 ideas to overcome this
- Antonia – some questions to ask yourself
- The ego and control – awareness of these when dealing with perfectionism
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