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In this episode, Joel and Antonia talk about alcohol and killing your heroes as they get progressively more inebriated. (WARNING: explicit content)
In this podcast you’ll find:
- Mark & Brian Morning Show
- Drunk History
- Imposter Syndrome Podcast
- Everybody is an imposter
- Reframe your relationship with us
- We like being guides but not heroes.
- People take personal development way too far.
- Leave room for fun.
- Joel was raised in a teetotaling household
- Drinking helped Joel reframe the things he had always believed without question
- Tim Ferris podcast with the sommelier
- The audience is responsible for their own experience
- Dumbo and his feather
- Humanize the people you follow.
- Psychedelic podcast
- If you’re projecting onto other people a capacity you do not recognize in yourself, when they go away, it feels like the capacity goes away.
- Give yourself to permission to recognize the same capacity in yourself.
- Antonia knew her religion was offending her Introverted Thinking
- Her Extraverted Feeling tertiary was freaking out because she knew she would lose everybody who mattered to her.
- She couldn’t shut out her Ti and make peace with everyone else
- Alcohol was her way to anesthetize the Ti.
- Coaching a junkie in the back of a van while she was knock-out drunk
- The higher-minded some people get the less likely they are to laugh
- “All humor is rooted in pain.” –Carol Burnett
- Don’t take yourself so seriously.
- Humor isn’t always rooted in pain.
- Humor can be rooted in emotional satisfaction or relief of tension when someone says something you were thinking but afraid to say.
- Personal development without humor is a smoke screen
- Humor may be one of our most ancient emotions.
- All mammals laugh.
- When people are humorless about personal development, it is because they are protecting something they are afraid to touch.
- They are making decisions about things from a place of fear.
- Any time we come from a place that removes permission from us means we are coming from a place of fear and scarcity instead of knowing and abundance.
- “I did drugs and drugs were bad,” is a Graves 3 experience level.
- You did drugs when you didn’t know why you were doing them.
- As you keep going up the spiral and you get to Green – Graves 6 – you start opening yourself up to useful technologies that some people may have abused at earlier levels – like psychedelics.
- Psychedelics have their uses in higher Graves levels.
- Kill your heroes!
- Don’t be afraid of undiscovered territory.
- The scary things are coming from a place of scarcity
- Don’t let your cognitive dissonance get you down.
- Be funny!
- Don’t take yourself too seriously.
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17 comments
Aw man, I miss you guys. That was tremendous.
I don’t mind you guys drinking. I’ve humanized almost all my heroes and I can’t remember ever listening to a pod that gave me so many laughs.
Ironically one of your smartest podcasts. I actually like you guys even more. But don’t worry I’m not above killing you guys if that time comes. You did say we could joke well developing ourselves right?
By the end, I felt high, even though I was not drinking. And I was laughing even though I am one of those serious people (ENTJ) Antonia was talking about, humor-challenged. Great comments about where rigidity plays in to what you will give yourself or others permission for. This is good for a judger to hear. Context, perceptions, motives for a particular behavior all matter. I have worried about my social drinker boyfriend (I never drank before). I occasionally drink with him and relax and get silly and laugh. Not sure yet whether this is a good thing. I want to do those things more but without the alcohol. Maybe the social drinking is good practice to give myself permission for those other enjoyable behaviors and eventually after baby steps I will be able to be fun on my own. Here’s hoping… thanks for helping look at this another way
This was hilarious and awesome. What a fun change of pace!